I admit that, while it's been varying degrees of disheartening to be unfriended by folks I've known for quite a while -- and with whom I've had a number of pleasant exchanges over the years -- because of my use and enjoyment of AI tools, I've rarely been *that* upset by it. It does smart more when it's been people with whom I've had engaging conversations and whom I've looked forward to seeing in person, but Generally my response has been to the tune of, "Oh, well... I guess we weren't all that friendly after all."
That said, I've been pondering this one instance for several days now and I think I really am bothered by it. I should note -- this person hasn't *actually* unfriended me (their spouse did), and I can still see their posts. I think I'd even be able to comment on them -- but I haven't ventured to in a while, because after one exchange some months ago it was pretty clear that they 100% didn't want to hear from me. I've sent a few Messenger notes since then that have gone unread. But last week they posted about feeling suicidal amidst the more widespread adoption of AI -- stating that they expect it to entirely replace "critical thinking, skill-building, and imagination" -- and I really wanted to respond. (more...)




